Step family issues. Dealing with a crazy ex spouses. Effects on children. Parental alienation. All around crazyness!

Tuesday, March 08, 2005

911!!! Wedding in progress!!

Our wedding day approached, and although CB (Crazy Bitch)had spent the last year trying her best to make Kelly unhappy about it, all the children were estatic and excited about the event. We planned the wedding during our 3 week summer holiday time with Kelly. Family was flying in from back east. Kelly of course was so happy to be spending time with family she had not seen in years that she did not want to spend each evening on the telephone with her mother.

The wedding was obviously getting to CB as she began phoning even more frequently and would refuse to let Kelly get off the phone until Kelly would repeat to her OVER AND OVER again.. "Yes, Mom,,I love you,, Yes,, I told you I do,, I do love you mom. Can I go now Mom? I want to play with my cousins. Yes, I miss you mom,, Yes, I'm thinking of you every minute, Mom,,, Please can i go now Mom?",,, this would go on and on, with Kelly getting very exasperated at having to reassure her mother over and over again. It got to the point that Kelly no longer wanted to accept the calls and it became very hard to get her to call her mother.

Of course, as is the case in all weddings, things are very hectic. You have your last minute planning, rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, etc. We had Kelly call CB in the morning the day before the wedding. That evening we had our rehearsal and dinner and did not arrive home to quite late. Although CB had already spoken to Kelly that day, there was a message DEMANDING Kelly call her again,,, "My child needs to speak to her mother!!!!,, blah blah". Kelly had fallen asleep on the way home, so we put her straight to bed before noticing the message.

Wedding day!! Beautiful moment for all of us. We all had a wonderful time. A family friend took the children home late and Jack and I spent the evening in a hotel. The next day we arrived home early afternoon for our gift opening with our friends and family. The call display showed that CB had called 17 times the of our wedding... did she think we were leaving Kelly at home for the wedding???? The messages were beyond insane, unsuitable for any child to hear. In one she even threatened that if the child did not call her in the next minute she was reporting her as missing to the police.... a child I might add was not even in her legal custodial care at the time. We asked Kelly to call her mother (cause she'd obviously flipped her lid), Kelly promised she would call her as soon as the company left.

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